Handle difficult people by not being one. Acting in a retaliatory manner makes them feel the behavior is justified. More often a person who is angry or frustrated will explode on someone who has nothing to do with why he or she is really upset. Instead of dealing with the real issue so it can be solved a difficult person will go around being mean and playing victim. Fight difficulty with the golden rule. Treat others the way you want to be treated. When that doesn’t work eliminate them from your space. You can’t always totally eliminate a person, because he or she may be a coworker or customer and you can’t quit your job over foolishness; so be the bigger person. Carrying around negative feelings leads to misplaced emotion which leads to stress and either a cluttered mind or a cluttered space. Don’t let a difficult person cause you to live in cluttered feelings or a cluttered home. Move on!
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